“Why do I keep attracting losers?”
I should have asked this question a long time back. But I didn’t, because I assumed it was just a coincidence and things will improve with time.
Well, guess what? They never did.
But I kept living under the impression that:
- I could be a winner by repeating “I am a winner” zillion times a day.
- The mind could be forced to believe in good fortune to attract positive people and circumstances.
- Willpower could help me overcome the negative thought patterns and behavioural conditioning.
I tried self-hypnosis, affirmations, and also subliminal recordings. I mean, I tried almost every goddamn thing under the sun, but the losers didn’t go away.
Still, I didn’t lose hope.
Though I was venturing into never-ending darkness, I thought it was just a matter of time.
Something radical happened this morning: My whole world came crashing down around me when I realised what a fool I had been.
The fact is that attracting losers and jerks into one’s life is rarely a matter of coincidence.
What is it then? Why do you keep attracting unsuccessful and harmful people into your life?
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